Love Beyond Words

by Dr. Al Hearne II

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1 John 3:18, "Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth."

 

The Apostle John, writing to early Christians, provides a profound yet practical command about love. This verse is part of a broader passage emphasizing what true, Christ-like love looks like. In the preceding verses, John reminds believers of the ultimate standard of love: Jesus Christ, who laid down His life for us (1 John 3:16). If Jesus' love was demonstrated in action, even to the point of death, then our love must also move beyond words into sacrificial deeds.

John's teaching directly confronts empty expressions of love. It is easy to say, "I love you," or to express sympathy, but true love, God's style of love requires action. If we see a brother or sister in need yet do nothing to help, how can we say we love as Christ loves? Love is not simply a matter of emotion or verbal affirmation; for it to be real, it must be demonstrated in how we treat others.

The phrase "in deed and in truth" highlights two critical aspects of biblical love. First, love must be active and demonstrated in tangible ways, such as generosity, service, and self-sacrifice. Second, love must be grounded in truth. The world often defines love as mere sentimentality, but biblical love is rooted in God's truth. Jesus is our model, He loved us so completely that He gave Himself for us on the cross. This was not just an act of kindness; it was the embodiment of love itself. As children of God, we are called to reflect that same love, moving from words to actions, feelings to faithfulness.

 

What Does This Mean for Us Today?

1 John 3:18 challenges us to evaluate the sincerity of our love. Do we express love in words or live it out through acts of kindness, generosity, and sacrifice? True love requires us to go beyond what is comfortable. It calls us to meet the needs of others, even when it costs us something: our time, resources, personal convenience, or personal desires.

Additionally, this verse reminds us that love is not based on fleeting emotions. Biblical love is rooted in God's truth; it is a commitment to seek the good of others, even when it is difficult. Jesus showed us what this looks like. He did not just tell us He loved us; He proved it by going to the cross. If we follow Him, we must move from words to action, ensuring that our love is real and transformative.

 

Reflective Practice

1. In what ways have you seen or experienced love that goes beyond words and into action?
2. Are there areas in your life where you find it challenging to express love through deeds?
3. How can you fully model Christ's love in your daily interactions with others?

 

Concluding Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for demonstrating the greatest love through Jesus Christ, who gave Himself for us. Help us to love not just in words but in deeds and truth. Teach us to recognize opportunities to serve, give, and sacrifice for others. May our actions reflect Your love so the world can see You through us. In Jesus' name, Amen.